SUFFERING = "clinging to that which changes" -- Buddhism
(source: de bekcer, g. 1997. the gift of fear. ny: dell, p. 217.)
>application: abusive men
"CONTROLLING may work for a while, even a long while, but then it begins not to work, and so he ESCALATES. he will do anything to stay in control, but his wife is CHANGING, and that causes him to SUFFER.... when men in these situations do not find out what is going on INSIDE them, when they do not get COUNSELING or therapy, it is a CHOICE to continue using violence...."
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